I have a simple insight and an even more simple challenge for you.

Children (and, surprise – adults) respond to smiles.  I know you know this, but children love getting smiles and approval for just being, not for performance.

When our children do well in school or athletics, of course we smile.

Here's the challenge: next time your children (regardless of age) are playing with their toys across the room or working on their homework and look up at you – just smile at them.  Catch them as they are doing nothing special! If they ask “dad, why are you smiling?”, just say “It delights me to be here in the same room with you.”  I know, they will have a puzzled look on their face – but then their heart and spirit will get it!

I wonder if that's how it is in heaven when God looks down on us and catches just being His children.

Blessings!

Pastor Mark