Many of the life's lessons are learned the hard way.
Sometimes we're stubborn or prideful and are the center of our own storm.     But much of the time life is a learning curve that has few real shortcuts.
Case in point – I have a small collection of O guage trains (mostly Lionel and Marx). Did you know Lionel trains are worth more if they have the original boxes? I didn't. After I put my Lionel pieces on my display tracks I threw most of the boxes away.  I know what you are thinking – like the Geico commercial “everybody knows that”. I later found that pre-war II Lionel boxes (no trains, just the box) were going for hundreds of dollars. I found even my newer items were worth $10-15 more if the original box was included.
Which leads us to my main thought today: you can only be where you are. Meaning we can listen to the counsel of others and save ourselves a ton of grief, but much of what we learn in life is by experience.
What's primary is that we actually learn!
Blessings!
Pastor Mark